31 Quotes About Insecurity in a Relationship

Dealing with relationship insecurities can leave you feeling exhausted and emotionally drained. These quotes about insecurity in a relationship capture the challenges you face that can threaten your relationship.

“A man who goes into a restaurant and blatantly disrespects the servers shows a strong discontent with his own being. Deep down he knows that restaurant service is the closest thing he will ever experience to being served like a king.”

“A man’s spirit is free, but his pride binds him with chains of suffocation in a prison of his own insecurities.”

“Be careful not to mistake insecurity and inadequacy for humility! Humility has nothing to do with the insecure and inadequate! Just like arrogance has nothing to do with greatness!”

“Being different is a revolving door in your life where secure people enter and insecure exit.”

“Bitter people are not interested in what you say, but what you hide.”

“Chasing a person doesn’t give you value or build values in you. You earn your value by chasing morality and practicing dignity.”

“Everybody sees me as this sullen and insecure little thing. Those are just the sides of me that I feel necessary to show because no one else seems to be showing them.”

“Everything might scatter. You might be right. I suppose it’s something we can’t easily get away from. People need to feel they belong. To a nation, to a race. Otherwise, who knows what might happen?”

“I am convinced that the jealous, the angry, the bitter and the egotistical are the first to race to the top of mountains. A confident person enjoys the journey, the people they meet along the way and sees life not as a competition.”

“I never feel unsafe except for when the majority is on my side.”

“If you’re waiting until you feel talented enough to make it, you’ll never make it.”

“I’m interested in the fact that the less secure a man is, the more likely he is to have extreme prejudice.”

“Insecure people only eclipse your sun because they’re jealous of your daylight and tired of their dark, starless nights.”

“Insecurity is the worst sense that lovers feel: sometimes the most humdrum desireless marriage seems better. Insecurity twists meanings and poisons trust.”

“It has always seemed that a fear of judgment is the mark of guilt and the burden of insecurity.”

“It took me years to learn to sit at my desk for more than two minutes at a time, to put up with the solitude and the terror of failure, and the godawful silence and the white paper.”

“It’s not all bad. Heightened self-consciousness, apartness, an inability to join in, physical shame and self-loathing—they are not all bad.”

“No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others.”

“Often those that criticize others reveal what he himself lacks.”

“Once you embrace your value, talents and strengths, it neutralizes when others think less of you.”

“Our envy always lasts longer than the happiness of those we envy.”

“She could just pack up and leave, but she does not visualize what’s beyond ahead.”

“The enemy uses those things your insecure about. Free yourself and take your power back by being secure in who you are – flaws and all.”

“The greater the artist, the greater the doubt. Perfect confidence is granted to the less talented as a consolation prize.”

“The older you get, the more you understand how your conscience works. The biggest and only critic lives in your perception of people’s perception of you rather than people’s perception of you.”

“The problem with human attraction is not knowing if it will be returned.”

“The reason we struggle with insecurity is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else’s highlight reel.”

“There will always be someone willing to hurt you, put you down, gossip about you, belittle your accomplishments and judge your soul.”

“We are all so afraid, we are all so alone, we all so need from the outside the assurance of our own worthiness to exist. So, for a time, if such a passion come to fruition, the man will get what he wants.”

“We’re going to have to let truth scream louder to our souls than the lies that have infected us.”

“When you stop living your life based on what others think of you real life begins. At that moment, you will finally see the door of self acceptance opened.”

Working on gaining some self confidence will leave you with overcoming your insecurity.